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Every relationship in the world is going to have its ups and downs, but some will have more than others, unfortunately.

This could be down to individual differences or your compatibility. However, some small things are going to silently chip away at the relationship you have with your partner. This can turn into arguments and resentment. This is the last thing any relationship wants to experience. These are mistakes that are little at first, maybe even unnoticeable. But with a little awareness, mindfulness and open communication, they can be avoided. To help you on your journey with your partner, here are some of the most common relationship mistakes and how you can go about resolving them to keep your relationship thriving.

#1 Poor communication

Communication is key for any relationship, and it shouldn’t be taken lightly. This is both big things, like avoiding hard conversations and not sharing how you truly feel, or it could be small things that let your partner into your world. Communication is therefore one of the biggest pitfalls in relationships. When you don’t communicate with each other, it can create emotional distance and misunderstandings. It is important that you take time to regularly communicate about your feelings, the good and the bad. You should also consider each other’s communication styles.

#2 Not being grateful

When you opt to be in a long-term relationship, it is easy to fall into a routine and forget to show your partner that you love and appreciate them. When you neglect small gestures of kindness or appreciation, it can lead to bigger feelings or resentment. It doesn’t have to be anything big, but small gestures such as telling your partner you love them or you appreciate them, or even thanking them for something they have done, can go a long way. You can take this a step further with a plant or flower delivery service to surprise them one day, without having a reason for the gift. It is things like this that show your appreciation and that will keep the bond between you strong.

#3 Stopping the little things

The little things go a long way. While they might seem small and easy to delay, they can make or break your relationship. When you begin a relationship with someone, you tend to do a lot of things and put in a lot of effort. It might not be realistic to do these things all the time, but not doing any of them is going to leave you or your partner feeling disconnected. Try to avoid this mistake by scheduling time to do something together, whether it is a date night or a new skill.

#4 Personal growth

Being in a relationship is a nice place to be, but when you begin to settle and not work on yourself, you are going to impact the relationship. These are things a lot of people will do at the start, and then neglect. When you work on your mental and physical health, you are not only going to improve things for yourself, but also for your partner.

Relationships require more than just the effort at the start. They need constant care and attention to stay alive and strong. Consider what mistakes you might be making and how you can repair your relationship.

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