5 Ways to Spice Up Your Bedroom Activities in The New Year
2020 was a rough year for pretty much everyone, and while it may have seemed great to have your partner around working from home with you 24/7, for many couples they are facing 2021 with uncertainty, and when it comes to their sex life? Let’s just say things are looking bleak.
Too Much Contact?
The idea of spending day in day out with your partner and having the opportunity to get down and dirty whenever you like may seem blissful, but after nearly ten months of living in each other’s pockets, many of you are feeling a little bit like sex is the last thing on your mind.
So, what can you do?
These five tips will help you spice things up in the bedroom and get your 2021 off to a good start!
Use Flavoured Lubricants
Flavoured lubes can make a huge difference to each partner’s enjoyment of oral sex, especially if you’re not a fan of it, but do it because you know your partner loves it.
The variety of flavours has come along too, and now you can get all sorts from chocolate to pina colada to sweeten the deal for you as well as them!
Try Out Some Sex Toys
This is an important tip: use sex toys with your partner! Most women can’t orgasm from penetrative sex alone and need clitoral stimulation to get off, so bring out the buzz and introduce some toys to the mix.
Toys aren’t just for women; there are plenty of options that were made specifically for men to try too.
Roleplay Your Fantasies
Do you talk to your partner about your fantasies? Do you know what your partner’s fantasy is? Take things up a notch by exploring your fantasies together and trying a bit of bedroom roleplay.
An important tip here: if your fantasies involve other people, make sure they’re people who are completely off-limits to both of you (like celebrities or fictional characters) rather than people you know and spend time with.
Schedule in Sexy Time
Do you hate getting a calendar invite for yet another Zoom meeting with your colleagues? Why not spice up your calendar invites by scheduling a bedroom meeting between you and your partner instead?
You could combine a bit of roleplaying and play out your boss and naughty secretary fantasies while you’re at it!
Just be sure that if you do put it on your public calendar, that the meeting invite has an innocent name!
Try Some Creative Writing
How do you feel about writing a story together? Not a simple fiction story, but a bit of erotica?
Women tend to be more stimulated by stories, whereas men are more stimulated by visuals.
Why not try combining the two passions together and write your very own erotica novel. For inspiration, you could always test out the described scenes to make sure they work – what good is it just writing if you can’t practice too?